Ben Rothwell, Andrei Arlovski and the strange comfort of an old nemesis

No one could mistake them for young men. Not now. Not after everything they’ve done and seen and endured. Not with the evidence of said things carved into their faces.
Just look at them. Watch them at yesterday’s pre-fight press conference for the BKFC KnuckleMania VI event in Philadelphia on Saturday night. You’ll see what I mean.
Andrei Arlovski, 47, former UFC heavyweight champion, a man whose nose has been aggressively repositioned on his face so many times he forgot where it started. And then there’s Ben Rothwell, 44, current BKFC heavyweight champion, with a head like a shiny battering ram and two stale spirals for ears, blinking slowly through the scar tissue as he listens to his old foe talk about how, after two wins over Rothwell in MMA, Arlovski is pretty sure he’s stuck in the man’s head in ways that will prove useful in Saturday’s bare-knuckle boxing match.
“I know how it probably looks to people,” Rothwell told me by phone a few days earlier. “If I lose again it’s like, 'Hey, are you ever going to figure out how to beat this f***ing guy?' Maybe that’s what he thinks too, like he’s got me figured out. Maybe I’m not that intimidating to him. Maybe he’s not worried about it. And I guess that’s what makes me feel like, 'Alright, man. I’m going to f***ing show you. You still don’t know what I’m about.'”
Shouldn’t he though? They had two previous fights, in two different MMA organizations, spaced out over a little more than decade. They’ve spent nearly a half-hour trying to hurt each other on live television. They’ve studied and trained for and thought about each other for, what, months of their lives at this point? It’s to the point where they can’t even really call the other an enemy anymore. They know each other too well for that.
Certainly Arlovski thinks so. At Thursday’s press conference he said he’s been stuck in Rothwell’s head since 2009. (Their first meeting was at Affliction: Banned, in July of 2008.) He also said that, as a man nearing 50, who’s already survived bouts with cancer, a third bout with Rothwell is “pretty much nothing” by comparison.
“He’s just a big guy,” Arlovski said. “A lot of meat, bones and skin. That’s it. And I’m very excited about this f***ing fight.”
It’s a different thing to have a nemesis at this stage of life. There’s a familiarity there, almost a comfort. They look across at each other and see an opponent who’d like to separate them from consciousness, sure, but they also see a peer. There’s a sense that, whatever animosity might be built into the relationship, at least you know this guy. At least he, like you, is still out here doing it. His staying power as a fighter reflects your own. You are compatriots in a sense, two old veterans still hanging on in a young man’s game. Whatever else you’d like to take from one another, that is something you share.
The first time they fought, Rothwell was 26 and fresh off a nine-fight winning streak in the IFL. Arlovski was 29, already on the back side of his UFC title reign, but seemingly still with plenty of fight left in him.
This was Rothwell’s chance to show he belonged in the big time. The problem back then, he said, was that maybe he didn’t entirely believe it himself.
“That first fight, there’s nothing I can say, no excuses or anything,” Rothwell said. “I should have fought better. That’s all. I had plenty of time to train for Andre. All I can chalk it up to is I was young in my career. I got overwhelmed by the opportunity. It was a huge fight, because I got told whoever won between me and Andre got to fight Fedor [Emelianenko], who at the time was the reigning heavyweight god, you know what I mean? Just to fight him, just to get a chance to fight him, it could have been life-changing. It could have completely changed the trajectory of my life. And Andre got it.”
Not only did Arlovski get the fight with Emelianenko, who was then essentially undefeated and the consensus top heavyweight in the world, he did quite well in the fight … up to a point. For most of the first round he swatted the stoic Russian all over the Affliction ring like a cat with a mouse. Then, perhaps feeling too sure of himself, he back Emelianenko into a corner and leapt toward him with a flying knee. By the time his body returned to earth, Arlovski was unconscious and defeated.
The second time Rothwell and Arlovski fought, well, that was a different story. It was in the UFC in 2019. Fans thought they were both old then. Arlovski got the decision in what was a largely forgettable fight in the careers of both men. Rothwell remembers Arlovski getting ahead early, outpointing him, pulling away on the scorecards.
“I turned it around in the third, bloodied him up a little bit, but he won the first two [rounds],” Rothwell said. “He did a good job. Now it’s seven years later and it’s like, where are we both at? Let’s see.”
One big difference between them now is these bare-knuckle fights are still somewhat new for Arlovski. He fought and won at a BKFC event last summer. He’s done some other boxing here and there. But Rothwell has been living this bare-fisted version of the sport for several years now. He’s 4-0 in BKFC, with finishes in every fight. He has the heavyweight championship around his waist. He has some things about this very specific and often bloody way of fighting more or less figured out. So if he can’t beat Arlovski in this, at this stage, how’s that going to feel?
At the same time, he can’t quite bring himself to view Arlovski as a hated rival. It just doesn’t work that way at this age, or with this kind of history between them.
“A part of me feels like, here's a guy that I'm fighting for the third time that's helping me make income one more time,” Rothwell said. “Even though he's got those wins on me, him and I both helped each other make substantial amounts of money. He even said the Affliction fight for him, that was the best — he made some really big money at that period of time, and I also got paid a ridiculous amount, really, for 2008. I made really good money. And then 2019, him and I got another paycheck together.
"So in a business sense, we've definitely helped each other. And it's like, who would I be fighting right now if it wasn't for Andre? Andre at least is helping us bring eyes to the whole thing, to the bare-knuckle fan base, and eyes to this event. So there is that respect. It's undeniable respect for all that him and I have both put into this.”
And yet, on Saturday night they’ll go out there stripped to the waist, knuckles exposed, swinging for each other’s faces until someone falls down and stays there. That’s the business they’ve chosen. At this point, they know it very well, just as they know there are not an infinite number of these opportunities left for them.
So why not go once more into the breech with an old rival? What’s a little more of each other’s blood spilled at this point? And who knows, maybe this time the result will be different. Maybe there are still some surprises left in this pairing, even after all these years.